Posted on January 25, 2011 by C.A. Curie , Posted in Autism Causes, Commentary, Doctors, Education, Medical Conditions , 6 Comments »
Disclaimer.
This is a theory and involves a culmination of extensive research,
consultations, personal experience and logic. I urge everyone to do their own
homework so that another Dr. Wakefield incident is not replicated.
Globally,
autism is on the rise and has been since the 1960′s. Granted, the newest
screening techniques and awareness have made it look more like a jump than the
reality of a steady surge.
Autism
has no borders and we must focus our attention on all of the similarities that
exist globally.
Possible
causes that affect the global rates may include carbon pollutants, factories
billowing heavy metals into the air and water, auto emissions, Chernobyl-type
incidents and other environmental factors.
All of these may play a role, to an
extent.
Heavy
metals laden in the human body do indeed cause genetic mutations. Heavy metals
in the brain wreak havoc. The auto-immune system reacts by attacking the
brain. This could all cause neurological interruptions, indeed.
I’m
not arguing that these don’t play a part, but since we are not all affected,
there must be another factor.
I’m
a woman with high levels of testosterone. I produced two spectrum-disordered
boys. My youngest daughter is earmarked for bi-polar syndrome and my oldest
daughter’s son is showing signs of toddler bi-polar. All three of these boys
have the same birth date and all three were above average, extremely cognitive
and healthy babies.
Now
that the vaccine myths have at last been dispelled, the correct answer can be
linked to hormones, birth control and chemically-produced hormones. This is not
a conspiracy and cannot be undone.
Over
twenty years ago, we realized that although our recycled water could be
made bacteria-free by processes that would make our water safe, our
filtration systems were not and are not enough to remove hormones and other
numerous chemical substances.
The
recent media-assisted push to stop flushing old medications down toilets
and start
depositing them in drug boxes such as mailboxes outside of courthouses and
other government buildings is no coincidence. Certain drugs and drug compounds
remain in our water supplies and we are in turn replenishing them back into our bodies
over and over again.
The
incidence of infertility has also been on the rise during the same time as
autism. It has been proven that over time, men and women (especially
child-bearing women) that have higher levels of hormones will have issues.
If a
woman gets pregnant while on birth control, is that not harmful to the fetus?
Are
we getting the big picture?
There
is no way around it — we are genetically mutated and the cause is
overwhelmingly linked to HORMONES.
We
acquire hormones through our poultry, beef and even our water supply, which is
the basic lifeline to everything we put into our bodies. As a result, we are
seeing the devastating consequences.
At
least four chromosomal disorders have been linked to autism. Males with autism
have higher levels of hormones than typical males. Higher levels of hormones
exist in the wombs of mothers bearing autistic developing fetuses than those
carrying typically developing fetuses. All of these facts are researched, proven
and known but unfortunately, the vaccine myth has turned society’s attention
away from them.
The
“modern world” began sending shipments of birth control and hormone-related
drugs to numerous third world and underprovided nations some fifty years
ago. In well-intended efforts in trying to control population numbers, we were
imposing our modern medicine on the rest of the world and it worked, to some
extent.
Women
began taking birth control in unprecedented numbers. Through women’s
urine, these hormones went into our water systems. Incapable of filtering these
massive amounts of hormones, the recycled water re-entered our atmosphere,
environment, homes and bodies. The fact that hormones have a long half-life
(the time it takes a drug to completely leave the body) does not help matters
either.
It
is also been proven that spectrum disordered males tend to have effeminate
characteristics versus typical males and disordered girls carry higher levels of
testosterone. These results continue to point toward hormonal imbalances as
being the culprit. Additionally, the uneven balance of males with autism vs.
females with autism (four times as prevalent) also points to a hormonal link.
It
was in fact, the drug companies who were responsible, but it’s not something
that we can undo. We now have to turn our research facilities into therapy-based
facilities for the generations here and the many more to follow. The genetics of
the planet are mutated and there’s no stopping the spectrum disordered
pandemic.
All
the while, the answer was right in front of our noses.
It was developed for the agricultural world, it has been in our purses,
under our pillows, in our drawers and handed out like candy around the globe.
We
spent far too much attention vilifying life-saving vaccines rather than looking
in our own homes. This was self-induced and we are still doing it today.
Will
the drug companies stop making hormones? Will the agricultural markets give them
up? Will filtration systems around the world ever be capable of ridding our
water systems of chemicals that are genetically changing the human race? I
certainly hope so.
This
IS the answer that has eluded us.
Let’s stop diverting attention away from the real issues and start encouraging drug companies, scientists, engineers and governments to do what they can to effectively remove or reduce hormones.
Do
your part and only buy poultry or meat that is hormone-free. Let’s lessen the
damage. Let us not get side tracked again and lose sight of the real need. The
affected kids are already here. The adults are here. The age of man-made
hormones, particularly in birth control, has brought on the age of autism.
And
in the process of trying to control the population, we have genetically
rearranged it forever.
This
is my theory. A theory that actually makes sense – globally.
Posted on January 24, 2011 by C.A. Curie , Posted in Autism Movies, Autism Services, Autism Speaks, Autism Support, Commentary, Families , 1 Comment »
The
“Mary Poppins” approach of teaching through play, while being highly
animated and visual is the
KEY
to curing a child’s
autism. “Cure” in the sense that a functional, happy life, complete with a
driver’s license, complex relationships, a career and a family of their own is
possible. Will they always be quirky? I do hope so. Most people are.
However,
we must encourage our kids to communicate and step out of their "safe"
place
in order to participate in our "typical" world.
Even the most passive and quiet caregiver can find ways for “a spoonful
of sugar to help the medicine go down.”
Is it
really that simple? In theory, yes.
In application, like anything else, your children will get out what you
put in.
Whether
choosing the son-rise, floor time or another preferred technique, there are
consistent factors which can be applied now and throughout the healing process.
Let’s
stop and say that there is the same percentage of “low functioning” autistic
children as there are “low functioning” typical kids. The lack of
appropriate therapy is creating the perception of excessive cases of low
function autism when in reality, there are really excessive cases of low
functioning therapy.
Furthermore,
the guilt and blame needs to stop as it serves no healing purpose. Parents are
where they are and what’s done is done.
Globally,
we are at an autism rate of 1 in 58, with less than half of all persons
screened. That presents itself of a possible rate of 1 in 30.
As soon as you hear of meltdowns, speech delays, tearing off socks, picky
eating, or any number of the early signs of autism, it’s time to get a
screening!
If a
parent cannot get into a pediatric neurologist, they should be extremely careful
about general practitioners. The overwhelming amount of GP’s in this country
cannot tell you the early or even later signs of autism.
In fact,
unless you have a stereotypical, wall-staring, head banging, speechless child
like I did, they won’t diagnose or even refer you for a diagnosis correctly.
In the case of my older son who has other spectrum disorders, it took
three-and-a-half years of misdiagnosing, improperly medicating, treating without
a proper diagnosis (winging it), and my teen’s near-suicide before the GP
would finally refer a specialist. In
fact, it was someone else in his office that finally made the call.
My older
son’s incredible co-diagnosis of OCD and autism was followed eight days later, thanks to
a pediatric neurologist who emergently self referred. In that moment, I swore
not to jump on any bandwagons, but only to do research and implement positive
daily techniques, whatever those would turn out to be. I swore to love, learn,
crusade and battle.
So what
do you do when autism is suspected?
I caution
the use of national organizations who boast autism anything. Many are
greedy money machines that support big payrolls, print brochures and assure you
of a "no cure" future so you will remain at their mercy.
If this
makes readers a little uncomfortable or anxious, it should because every step a
parent takes from this point on will make or break their child’s future and
things need to be taken seriously.
Once
autism is suspected, a referral to a pediatric neurologist should be demanded
because getting an “official” diagnosis is critical to receiving access to
services along the way.
The next
step is to get in touch with Autism Speaks. I am not affiliated with them in any
way, but I know what I know. Every city, every county and every state has
resources that can assist in a pre-screening, which will give you a head start
and get the early intervention wheels rolling.
Search
the Internet for, “getting a child screened for autism,” then add your city
and county name to the search. If you don’t have a computer, ask a friend or
go to the library. Now is the time to learn to make things happen as this is a
skill you will need to use for the rest of your life.
If your
child is older than the zero-to-three or four-to-five year milestones (the
critical windows), there are still resources available. Tell people that you see
red flags and want to know where to pre-screen while you wait for the
“official” diagnosis from a pediatric neurologist.
Sadly, depending upon where you live, this can take up to 18-to-24 months
and in extreme cases, even 3 1/2 years of waiting.
There is
no denying that there are states far superior than others in the treatment of
autism. There are eight that are very good and even then, it goes
county-by-county and school system-by-school system.
Even more specific, quality of services can vary from teacher-by-teacher
and therapist-by-therapist.
In
general, however, the state you live in will determine the rest of your
child’s life. I am foreclosing on a ten-acre horse farm worth a half-million
dollars and had to get out of the 48th
ranked state.
After
fourteen months of hopelessness and only one therapist with any accurate
knowledge, numerous blogs and over 1,000 phone calls, including personal contact
with the Governor’s office, WE ran out of time.
“Ran
out of time” meaning my son was already three and even basic therapy was
nowhere in sight.
You will
need to put this to memory and you will hear this over and over again: 70%
of a child’s learning and language foundation is DONE by the age of three.
Does that mean your child has learned 70% of everything he will learn? NO.
What that
means is that his OS (or operating system), like Windows XP, Windows 98, Linux,
etc. or his learning platform, is almost completely in place. By
this age, the way your child learns becomes set. You will still have a few
windows before the age of five, but after that, it is all data input,
interpretation, memorization, reasoning and implementation.
If you
bought a computer with only an operating system, you would still have to add programs and applications. These “brain applications” can be easier to
download into the brain during these early critical years and will be much
harder and cost much more time and money later.
This
leads to importance of GETTING YOUR CHILD VACCINATED. Though they seem
to trigger
autism, and in my personal research and experience they certainly do, vaccines
force autism to show its pre-disposed face at a time when early intervention and
the greatest chances for full recovery are still probable.
If you could know three years ahead of time about any disease or disorder
which could be treated and cured, wouldn’t you want to know?
Vaccines
do not cause
autism. This lie was recently dispelled by the scandal surrounding a doctor’s
alleged “conclusive research” which was manipulated into a million dollar,
award-winning horrific myth, which has created a lot of confusion and left a
huge population of kids susceptible to insidious diseases.
Now, back
to Ms. Poppins. I will be referring to the technique of learning-through-play by
using this phrase.
I coined
this to make a more visual and understandable role model for parents. Get down
to their level, in their field of vision, use common sense research, then shoot
for the stars.
Do not
limit what you think they will learn and do not try to control how
they will learn. Guide them. Although each one of these kids is different, the
general proven approach to treatment is the same.
Imagine
you are stranded in Russia and no one speaks your
language for three or four years. Can you imagine the relief when someone walks
up and says, “Hello, are you from the US?”
You will
latch onto this person through any means necessary — your hands, pictures, sounds, or pointing and
you will begin to try and communicate, exploding like a capped shaken can of
soda.
Welcome
to autism.
If your
child is speaking and even has nearly perfect speech, then you need to consider
echolalia or Asperger’s. A rose is
a rose and we are still talking about autism.
What triggers this speech is a combination of factors.
I was
told over a 14 month period that my son was “not speaking because I was an
older mother” and that “older mothers tend to meet their children’s needs
so the child has no reason to speak.”
Then I
was told to “hold two different foods up in front of him and
DON
’T feed him until he says
which one he wants.” To make matters worse, the doctor’s assessment and
advice was reinforced by a WIC representative. This is the result of residing in
the 48th worst state with regards to autism resources and lack of
awareness.
There’s
no excuse. The research is written and is published for FREE
.
What do you call the medical student who came in last in his graduating class?
A DOCTOR.
Degrees
will quickly become nothing more than a piece of paper hanging on the wall if
the education does not continue. This is especially true with autism. My own
family members have masters’ degrees in education and admittedly, were
completely unaware of “modern autism” and its current treatments.
Stopping
one’s study at graduation can be equated to getting a driver’s license. When
a driver’s license is obtained, a person is only at the beginning, but should
continue, and hopefully learn the rules of the road and acquire additional
knowledge and experience. Keep in
mind, at this point, they are already operating a deadly weapon!
However,
should your state institute laws such as "traffic circles" or no cell phone
usage, a person must learn
those too.
How can
these doctors get by without knowing anymore about autism beyond what they may
or may not have learned even just two years ago? They are all “flying under
the radar,” as I was told by a state-level Medicaid administrator. Absolute
negligence is what the history books will determine. This I am certain of.
Hopefully,
experiences by most parents will not be so extreme. Abundant resources were not
available during my son’s early years. This will help get you through so many
obstacles including the lack of awareness.
The
Autism Speaks’ booklet and guide entitled “The First 100 Days of Autism”
is FREE to caregivers of newly diagnosed children. This was and is one of the
single greatest current tools available. Remember, the correct advice is usually
the FREE
advice.
Now back
to the “expert” recommendation of depriving my child of food. Obviously, my
son began to scream while staring at his few preferred foods that were not being
fed to him, while I continued to follow this advice and waited for words that
would not come. I then immediately
began again to research the correct techniques. The ‘picky eater’ or
‘starch junky’ syndrome is medically known as gustatory disorder and is
commonplace within the autism spectrum.
Furthermore,
ridiculous notions that a special diet, pills, chelating (techniques which
assist in the removal of heavy metals from the body), a
DVD, a bedtime story or a
magnet mattress will by themselves cure autism are absurd and again, part of the
billion dollar industry thrashing already broken lives.
What
needs to be emphasized is a “healthy body, healthy brain.”
With
gustatory disorder being so prevalent among children with autism, how do we
achieve a healthy body?
Start
feeding a child supplements such as Ensure and Pediasure.
In most states, when prescribed, these healthy drinks will be covered by
your private insurance, WIC or state insurance (Medicaid).
Talk to a
nutritionist, usually available through WIC or even through a school, about
balancing a healthy diet by the use of supplemental drinks. Though we may be in
uncharted territory on some issues, healthy eating and balancing a child’s
diet are nothing new.
My
son’s speech came almost immediately following the end of the “diet” and
the beginning of the supplemental drinks and yes, Happy Meals.
Nothing
replaces YOU. You are the most important therapist, soldier, advocate and source
of love and guidance that your child will ever have.
Keep in
mind, for years, the Board of Pediatrics has advised a minimum of 40 hours per
week of ABA (Applied Behavior
Analysis, the single most important therapy for the treatment of autism) and a
minimum of 25 hours per week of speech therapy for a minimum of 2 years.
It is
logical that a toddler will not be moving into the school OR doing weekends. In
fact, for most states, a parent might get a once-a-week, twenty-minute visit
from the school’s occupational therapist.
It’s amazing that states are taking President Obama’s autism stimulus
money, while the overwhelming amount of them are barely scratching the surface.
Just wait until the “autism president” finds out — and he will.
Perhaps
if our President were to award according to what is actually being provided
state-to-state, there might actually be an incentive for the 42 to learn about
autism, while the 8 other states that are getting it right might get the funding
they actually need and deserve for the tremendous work they are doing.
I was
born in Washington
DC
and they heard me cry
then. I wonder if anyone will hear my cries now?
It is
crystal clear that the majority of therapy will be done in a child’s
“natural environment,” which is now the technical term for the home. This
also means that you will be responsible for the minimum 65 hours a week of
therapy for your child’s needs.
Don’t
panic. There are ways of doing this, even for a single mom like me.
Remember,
we are going to learn to teach through play as Ms. Poppins suggested.
Either way, you don’t have a choice. The fact that you’re reading
this already means you do care. If you want success, it begins in and
predominantly happens in the home.
“Not
even the greatest therapist or therapy would have success without the continuity
and consistency in the home.”
This
quote was supplied to me by my cherished first OT. I refer to these
professionals as mine rather than his because in all honesty, I am also the
student here as you will be too.
Seeking
out therapeutic situations and environments where you are included is absolutely
essential. Therapists who ask you to leave for the whole therapy session will
not be beneficial. It is the continuity and consistency of therapy done between
all of your child’s environments which will bring the most success.
Transitioning from one situation or activity to another are tremendous hurdles
in autism.
Everyone
must be on the same page doing the same techniques (which are showing positive
results), or you will not have success. It is mostly common sense. Also beware
of the "my way or the highway" therapists.
Again,
ask for a track record and ask to see their results.
Additionally,
you must be willing to try numerous techniques, if needed, to find the ones that
work for your child. You might find yourself creating a few of your own along
the way and by all means, please share them.
We are
looking for results. Your own "off the wall" or "out of the box"
ideas may work for many more kids.
Please
remember, to some extent, we are in uncharted territory and it is a combination
of the hard work of all of us that will help researchers, parents, teachers,
caregivers and all members of these kids’ teams to structure the stepping
stones of the future of autism. We are in this equally regardless of where we
are in our journeys.
Another
extremely important component is the awareness of everyone. If the autism rate
was 1 in 10,000 in the 1980’s and is 1 in 58 or less today, then even those
who do not have a person with autism to immediately care for will certainly have
one in school, the workplace, a relationship or in the community. It is already
a part of our daily culture and societal infrastructure and must be recognized
and understood as such.
This is a
pandemic. If any strain of Influenza or disease were this prevalent, we would be
under martial law. However, we go day after day without hearing or reading a
single word. Is this coincidental? Mine is not the worry to attend to such a
huge question, but to serve my son and whatever I can do to assist those wanting
to seek out and learn. I have my hands full at this.
A
potential guide for you as you start your own research is to check the dates of
what you are reading. That tip, like so many others, was given to me by our one
and only therapist in the state I came from that was completely current and
really knew her stuff.
Additionally,
anything or anyone touting a cure, but necessitating buying a book,
DVD
, or any other profitable
instrument to get the “answers” should be looked upon with heavy skepticism..
Think
about it, when has there ever really been a “cure” throughout history
without the information on it being free?
I assure
you, if anyone really knew more than the people actually healing or that have
helped guide their kids to a healing, we would know about it by now. Autism
caregivers are very open about their techniques, knowledge and lives and the
autism community has become a very “pay it forward” group.
Certainly,
great books have been written, including everything by
Temple
Grandin
.
Temple
has autism. Her life story
was recently made into a movie by HBO and entitled
Temple
Grandin
. Temple
is now an accomplished
author and speaker, has her PhD, teaches at
Colorado
State
University
and is an icon to be
learned from, studied, admired and respected. She is our Miracle Worker.
Temple’s HBO story, for those
who have not yet seen it, went up for sale this past August 16th and
it is strongly advised you watch it to understand the concept of “thinking in
pictures,” which is also the name of one of her books.
You will
also learn much about the “silver lining” (as my son’s diagnosing
pediatric neurologist referred to it as) behind OCD (Obsessive Compulsive
Disorder), a co-diagnosis usually found with not only with autism, but with most
Spectrum Disorders. Temple
Grandin
shows us the innate fears,
the rifling visual memory recalls, the brilliance and the hope we are now
facing.
You can
hardly watch this poignant story and state that autism cannot be cured.
Another
special caution should also be given towards self-proclaimed autism therapists,
autism specialists and other fancy abbreviated medical labels. A quick search
for any degree as an autism specialist will not bring results, not even in a
vocational, non-accredited online course. Also, there are no DAN degrees –
except in Martial Arts!
A degree
in ABA
(Applied behavior
Analysis), PT (Physical Therapy), OT (Occupational Therapy), ST (Speech Therapy)
and SLP (Speech and Language Pathology) can be combined with autism-specific
courses.
A
pediatric neurologist with extensive training in autism-related teachings IS the
authority. It must be added, since autism is best treated by a PhD, Board
Certified ABA (Applied Behavior Analyst), a lot of merit should be given to
these professionals’ treatments and techniques.
Be
prepared to encounter wannabe, self proclaimed money grabbers and don’t be
afraid to interview these people and question them as much as possible.
Again, ask to see results. Ask about their most recent studies and check
into their alleged accreditations. The current pandemic of autism has brought
out the very best and the very worst in our society.
There is
more misinformation and misdirection in the cause and treatment of autism than
with any other disorder in history. The billion dollar industry of bad books,
worthless DVDs and “autism specialists” are overwhelming.
This
greed machine has found us with our hearts and wallets open, begging to help our
loved ones and they are there for the taking. Reviews and testimonials can be
faked and they sure do a great job at that.
I will be
offering my research, findings and experiences with the jungle of media help and
guides out there. You may be shocked at the results. Please remember, it is a
hard work, common sense approach that is needed.
Like
reaching out to a foreigner who is from a place deep within their own minds and
who doesn’t have the skills to communicate, you must have patience and
compassion. Trust is the bridge. Love is the incentive. Knowledge is the tool.
You can
do it. You may never be an autism expert, but you will certainly be your
child’s expert in a short period of time.
You
should no longer limit what or how your child will learn nor should you limit
how tremendous you will be in this task. It will shortly go from frustration to
sensational witnessing of moment-to-moment miracles.
Never in
your life will anything represent the amazing road ahead and the gratification
of knowing you have changed a life for the better. Is autism a lifetime
disability? By law the answer is: YES.
Will your
child need to be institutionalized? The answer should be NO and that is in great
part up to you.
The
aggressions associated with most spectrum disorders will be reduced with correct
therapies, especially in the area of communications. Emotions will need to be
taught. Senses will need to be defined, enhanced or respected because of
over-enhancement.
Will your
child need assisted living? Protected living is a better definition and that’s
where sibling, family and societal awareness are critical.
Remember,
you have just encountered the most honest, trusting and innocent human being you
will ever meet. This is yet another
gift of autism.
I am so
excited to have a voice to reach out to so many. Answers that were or are buried
under “autism cure”
DVD
sets and complete media
misinformation will finally be made clear.
There is so much to report and so much to learn and we are all in this
together.
History
is being rewritten, autism is here. Spectrum disorders of all kinds are
everywhere and in our workplaces, communities, institutions (including prisons)
and our entire planet is full of people with autism, both diagnosed and
otherwise. Did autism suddenly jump up or did we finally start screening,
recognizing and diagnosing? The answer is overwhelmingly, both!
The first
things to keep in mind AD (After Diagnosis) is NO BLAME, NO GUILT and NO FEAR.
Many
answers are available and many more are forthcoming. You are not alone. From the
initial what do I do?, to caring for the caregivers, your hand will be held and
as ours needs holding too.
Your life
has just been changed forever. You will need to rearrange your dreams, your
path, your career, your friends, your family, your relationships, your thinking
and even your furniture. You might even be like me and rearrange your address –
3,000 miles away to another state.
Whatever
the price, please pay it. The
KEY
to Autism is you. You will
find that learning through play is possible and actually fun. The future of this
miraculous, innocent and special human being is in your hands and you can do
this. You will need to meet this
person halfway at times and all the way other times.
You will,
in a sense, need to be autistic yourself to see through their eyes and
understand their world. One thing is
for certain, this is the most remarkable journey you could have ever embarked on
and you won’t have any regrets if you’ll just try.
Remember,
your children will get out of this what you put into it.
Again, as
Mary Poppins says, “a spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down.” Get out
your chalk and be prepared to draw fantastic pictures to jump in, because she is
right.
Welcome
to autism.
