I hope this isn't out of line but I wil pray for you. My Aspergers son doesn't have OCD but he is socially challenged that going places can be hard. First, I would suggest maybe arriving late and leaving early. THis keeps from overwhelming everyone. Also, your daughter is something to be proud of and if people want to stare, a lot of times they either don't understand the situation or if they do, they are admiring you so dont take all stares offensively. Print up little cards to hand to people who don't know you and your daughter that says something like, " My daughter has OCD. For more infomation visit www._____________. (whatever website you recommend for them to get information concerning your daughters condition. That will usually stop the staring.