Hi, my son is 5 years old. He started an early PALs program for what we originally thought was a speech delay. He has since demostrated some autistic behavior which warranted an evaluation by the school autism specialist. His results were boarder line. He has some red flags- but not enough to say 100%. I am at work- so i don't remember the exactly things they said- but they said he would benefit from a figit toy. I was like that's it? They were mentioning SPD early on. Which i found out is associated with the spectrum also. We are scheduled for a IEP meeting based on the results of this inconclusive information. I feel like i am gettting snowballed. He has an ARDS for speech- he has managed to reach many goals. What should i be fighting for? My husband is in denial and doesn't want him labled. me i want whatever is best for him. lable or no lable. ANy suggestions? He is supposed to mainstream for kinder next year.