Hi Jaimee123,
First of all...(((HUGS))). Initially, it seems very scary and overwhelming, but as conk said above, it does become more managable as you see her develop. The state you live in is key and if you have been getting services already (early intervention?) definitely ask them questions and use them for support. If you feel that she should be getting something else let them know. Good luck and if you need anything, PM me!